My fiancee Liz always gets mad at me, but I can't help it! If I see Arthur sitting in my desk chair, I won't kick him out. If I'm sitting in the chair and he wants it, I'll give up my seat and grab a hard wooden chair from the diningroom for myself.
Sometimes, if I see Arthur sitting on the floor or walking around aimlessly, I'll even pick him up and carry him to the leather chair, because I don't think it's befitting for a king to lie on the floor in front of the fridge.
Before you accuse me of spoiling Arthur, I have to admit a selfish motive for giving Arthur my chair. If I give Arthur the chair, I can have some bonding time with him. If I'm using the computer and he's sitting next to me in his chair, I can stroke him while I work. Beowulf will sleep on top of my desk so I can stroke him while I'm using the computer, but Arthur won't sit on the desk.
Another thing I like to do is roll the chair over to the couch so I can lie down on the couch while Arthur rests in his chair. I'll stick my hand or arm out and he will use it as a pillow (see photo at right). There's no better feeling than being used as a cat pillow. Really!